The Process

How Solemates Works

No fees. No complicated systems. Just people helping people find the right fit.

Step 1

Browse the Exchange

Filter by size, side (left or right), brand, condition, and more. Whether you need a single shoe or a split-size pair, the search is built for you.

Step 2

List What You Have

Upload photos, enter sizes, set your terms — donate, swap, or sell. Add a Shoe Story to make it personal. It takes under 2 minutes.

Step 3

Use the Match Maker

Enter the sizes you need. Our system finds perfect matches AND mirror matches — people with the opposite split-size who could swap with you.

Step 4

Connect Directly

When you find a match, send a message. No middlemen. You and your match decide how to exchange — shipping, local meetup, or however works best.

Step 5

Complete the Exchange

Arrange shipping or a meetup. Solemates doesn't handle payments — this is peer-to-peer. Donate, reimburse shipping costs, or use a Buy Me a Coffee link.

Step 6

Share the Love

Had a great match? Tell your story on our Community Stories page. Your experience might be the nudge someone else needs to post their extra shoe.

Our Foundation

Built on Community Values

People First

This is a community, not a corporation. Every feature exists to help real people.

Safety & Dignity

No pity. No charity vibes. Just neighbors helping neighbors find what fits.

Pass It Forward

One extra shoe can change someone's day. Sharing is how this works.

Support

Common Questions

Ready to find your match?

Whether you're looking for a shoe or sharing one, you're in the right place.